Fence Sitters

The people who drive me the most insane (most of u are guilty >:( just not as much as these people) are the people who have no identity, who can't make decisions, they flow with the river and sit on the fence. They never pick a side and they tell you everything you want to hear. They always tell you how cool you are and how you guys should hang out. But they'll never take the initiative and most of them time even reject all your initiative. WHAT FUCKERS!!!! how dare they deny the simplest right of humans: THE TRUTH. They use, and manipulate, and lie, all so that they never have to confront a problem, so that they always seem like the "good guy".

Truth is in the actions. You can tell me you care about me a million times, if you leave me when I'm broken down then you DON'T GIVE A SHIT. That's the reality, they will make excuses, their words and actions hardly ever match up. This behavour can come out of a two different root problems:
1.Fear, they are afriad of commitment, or of vulnerability, or of responsibility, of everything. They need to remain in control. They put up walls in their relationships to prevent anyone getting close to them. They run from all forms of conflict, even if it's simply an arguement at a food store, what appears to be comprize or selflessness is actually fear. On the surface it appears as if these people are always "there" for friends, that they put other's needs above their own. LIES!!!! Unfortunately the motivation is always cowardice. And when the shit hits the fan, they are nowhere to be seen, they clam to be "too busy" when its realy "too afriad", or "too selfish". They disguise themselves as the meek, while in fact they actually VERY weak.
2.Selfishness, they realy don't care about anyone else, everyone is a stepping stone to achieve their own happiness. these type of people are rare and are actually sociopaths. Nearly soulless humans without ANY form of compassion or caring. I hope the people i know aren't that, because there's no way to change this, they are literally born without a conscience.

Everyone is afraid, everyone doesn't want to be responsible, doesn't want to be vulnerable, but it's better for youself later, but more importantly it allows you to help others without hesitiation. The world is crumbling because of selfishness, which usually stems from fear. Let us break the cycle of fear and transform our surroundings into love and caring. Chances are if you read this and disagree, YOU'RE that asshole, don't try and justify anything to me, give a good, hard look into your actions and objectively see what you do when a confrontation happens, or when friends have problems, feelings don't matter, look to your actions as truth.